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Everything seems to be growing at this time of year. Whether it is the blossom on the trees, new shoots peeping through damp soil or the impatient squawking of baby birds waiting to be fed, Spring is synonymous with growth. Children seem to take growth in their stride, changing so quickly from the helplessness of a newborn they learn quickly about the world around them. Infants are innately curious, soaking up their experiences like a sponge. In fact I can't think of any other time in life when we grow and develop so rapidly. What an amazing time of excitement and wonder! When brought up in a loving environment, children are not afraid to take first steps or to ask for their needs to be met instead change and transformation occur naturally. Yet as we get older, transformation gets more difficult. Our fears whisper to us that change is scary and that failure is all we can expect. For some people this stops growth. They may believe that they have learned everything they can and ...

Memory or gratitude jars are a great and really simple way of helping manage low moods and increase feelings of positivity. When life overwhelms us it can sometimes feel as though everything is hopeless and that nothing will ever change. A memory jar allows us to store thoughts and experiences that can be reflected upon again and again to remind us that bad times do pass and to re-establish balance in our thought processes. So how do you make a memory jar? You will need: A large mason jar (or similar) A pack of coloured post it notes (or small pieces of paper) A pen Additional ticket stubs, photos, mementos from experiences etc. How to: Simply write a memory on the post it note every time you have a positive experience, what it was and how you felt. It doesn't matter how big or small as long as it's something that feels good. Perhaps you could collect mementos of good times and write on those, or maybe you could add photos of when you felt good and surrounde...

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According to Srini Pillar (2010), a professor at Harvard Medical School, when we use creative visualisation or more specifically when we think and feel an experience we stimulate the area in our brain that is used to rehearse and learn. Our brains have 'plasticity' and are capable of change at any age and with repetition new experiences create new pathways in our brains. We are  science; energetic beings made from atoms, neurons and particles that attract 'like' particles; "like attracts like". When we explore these ideas in connection with our hopes and dreams it becomes possible to see what might happen when we believe ourselves to be successful or unsuccessful, powerful or powerless and how this can have an impact on various areas of our current and future life. Creating visual representations of what we would like to achieve can help us become more aware of our thinking and enable clarification and goal setting. However, you don't have to be ...

Life has been a bit crazy of late. Sometimes it can feel like there are not enough hours in the day to achieve all the things I feel that I need to achieve.  I know that this is a feeling echoed by many of my family and friends. I only have to log on to Facebook to see people’s daily lives rushing from here to there. It would seem our lives are jam packed with a range of " must do’s" , so that it can sometimes feel as though we run everywhere,  as though on a wheel rumbling on and on, never stopping. Exhausting isn’t it? When we cram so much into our lives we can sometimes feel overwhelmed by how much we feel we have to do and yet, still we feel that we should be doing more.  This is how it has been for me for as long as I can remember.  Always feeling as though I should be doing more, sometimes I have even found myself feeling guilty if I take time for myself, to relax or to take a pause. Almost as though I am disobeying some kind of cosmic rule! I d...

Recently I saw the film of the moment, the wonderful  The Greatest Showman and   I loved it! Immersed in a colourful world, accompanied by a hugely talented cast with lyrics to inspire (it helped that gorgeous Hugh Jackman is the main character too!). There is something about the messages hidden in the lyrics that has potential to speak to something in all of us. For me, the words from the song " Come Alive"  have got me thinking. How many of us can relate? How many of us stumble through our days, head hung low? How many of us feel like every day is a routine to be endured rather than enjoyed? How on earth do we "shake away" to develop the self belief to follow our dreams? In order to help us navigate life safely, what we believe about ourselves begins developing from birth. Our brains store memories, imagine a library that we can consult as we grow that allows us to match experience to stored memories. When memory connects to positive sensations we are more li...

Ever since I could remember, I have loved to create and express myself through art and crafts. Whether it was paint, clay or poetry (there were some seriously dubious attempts to master my teenage angst) I was never happier than when I was lost in my creation, pouring something of myself out into the world. There is a photo of me aged about three; tongue out, in excited concentration, my hair a bundle of wild curls as I scribble furiously across a huge sheet of paper. The photo is slightly out of focus, presumably because my Mum couldn't catch the speed at which I through myself into my art with her 1970's camera (no digital back then).   S omething about this photo makes me smile. My heart feels warm as I look at this little girl so obviously caught up in the joy of her own expression.  There is no pressure here to be good at art or to be tidy and not make a mess. Instead this is a photograph of total freedom.  Free to release the artist within and show how it fe...